PSYCHOLOGICAL FEATURES OF A WOMAN WHO BRINGS UP A CHILD FROM HER FIRST MARRIAGE IN A NEW MARITAL RELATIONSHIP

Abstract

Formulation of the problem. When remarriages appear many problems, in addition, in remarriage people again face difficulties that complicate their first marriage. Analysis of recent research and publications. Family and family problems attract the close attention of specialists. The problem of remarriages is, first of all, the conflict between the child and the “new father”, and the mother plays an important role in its formation or elimination. For a new family to be formed, time is needed, and often this is hampered by unrealistic expectations. The presentation of the main material. In the majority, mothers in the second marriage do not show sincere attention to what interests the child from the first marriage, do not assess the child’s abilities, establish some, often significant, psychological distance between themselves and the child, do not care enough about it. In some cases, the mother behaves too authoritarian in relation to the child, or, on the contrary, there is practically no control over the actions of the child by the mother. Almost half of the studied women in the second marriage consider their child from the first marriage a little loser. Conclusions and prospects for further research. A woman should be able to analyze her behavior and consult a psychologist in time if necessary. Otherwise, a very high proportion of the likelihood that in a new marriage everything will go according to the previous scenario.